I really don’t get into New Year’s resolutions. If I call it that, it is almost like giving myself permission to do what most often happens with resolutions – QUIT. However, it seems to be a great time to look back on the past year and to look forward to the new one. I like fresh starts! The last day of 2009 was awesome. We were down in Texas spending time with my wife’s parents, who live next to Lake Brownwood.
On New Year’s Eve, I got up early and spent some great time with God. In addition to Bible study and praying, I spent some time thinking back on all He had taught me throughout the year and all that had taken place. I also spent some time praying and reflecting on how I want / need to grow in 2010. Among these are to read through the Bible again (and not with the goal of getting through the Bible, but getting the Bible through me) and to memorize a verse per week, beginning with Psalm 91, which I have adopted as my theme passage for the year. I will share one more of my goals for this year with you, and won’t bore you with the rest. My mentor has the goal each year of making it the best year in his marriage, from his wife’s perspective. I have adopted this goal for the year, as well. I want my wife to be able to say that this is the best year of our marriage. If I can say it, and she can’t, that means I have been selfish. God has been teaching me that selfishness has no place in marriage (or anywhere else, for that matter), and this will be a great exercise in selflessness.
Later in the morning on New Year’s Eve, my oldest daughter wanted to get out and drive the golf cart, so she drove the other three kids and I down to the Lake. We spent a good 30 minutes or so skipping rocks across the channel. We were having a blast. One of the girls brought me a piece of a clam shell that was sort of pearl colored and shiny, and it was in the shape of a heart. Just the day before, as I was finishing up my study of Malachi, I had read the verses in Chapter 4 where it says that the prophet Elijah will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers. I kept the piece of shell as a reminder. As God always does when He wants to drive a point home with me, He re-enforced this teaching by leading me to study the book of Luke next. This morning, I read Chapter 1, verse 17: “And he (John the Baptist) will go on before the Lord, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the fathers to their children and the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous – to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.” I got chills when I read this verse. God is reminding me to not neglect my own children as I minister to others, and I believe it is a confirmation in what I am doing to try to encourage other men in their fathering. It also encourages me to take advantage of the opportunities God is giving me to help others grow spiritually. I love when God does this!
After our rock-skipping adventure, my wife and I left the kids with her parents and went on a date. We saw the movie, “The Blind Side,” and I highly recommend it. It is based on a true story of how a family took in a fatherless child and made a huge difference in his life. Those of you who know me know why I like this movie so much. I have such a heart for those children whose Dad can’t or won’t be a part of their lives. Anyway, we went for a late lunch after the movie. We had a great visit over a Schlotsky’s sandwich and soup. This was one of our favorite places to eat early on in our relationship, and it brought back great memories. After that, we went shopping and then went back to rescue the grandparents. Later that evening, the kids opened gifts from my wife’s siblings. You probably heard the scream clear up here in Kansas when they opened up their Wii.
Anyway, it was a great way to end the year. We got the Wii hooked up last night, and some of us are a little sore today (yes, even I played… LOL).
I am so excited about what God has in store for 2010. I want to apply Psalm 91:1 (typing from memory since this is my memory verse for the week): “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.”
May God bless you as you seek Him in 2010!
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I’ve had a hard time writing lately. I start to write and then it just doesn’t sound right. Here goes another attempt. I wish I could just download what’s on my heart. It all sounds good on the inside until I try to write it out… Maybe I should just do little bits at a time. I always end up writing mini-novels. One thing I learned on this trip is that we climb mountains one step at a time.
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