I usually don’t write as frank as I’m about to write. For some reason, I just feel compelled to write this tonight. I have 1000 other things I should be doing (like getting some sleep), but I’m going to write anyway…
As you read this, please don’t think I’m touting my way of life. I don’t have it all figured out, and I mess up plenty. At times I feel like I’ve taken on too much and have my priorities out of whack. At other times, I remember the verse, “Never tire of doing good…” I want to make as much of an impact as I can while I’m on this Earth, and I don’t want to waste any time. At the same time, I feel like I need a little more balance. So, know that I’m writing this with awareness of my own faults.
When I took the Servant’s By Design assessment for Men’s Fraternity 3, I learned that I have about 8% energy in the “Energizer” category, which means I’m really not energized by doing things just for fun. I have 100% energy in the “Harmonizer” category. So, basically, I’m the type of person that people call when they need someone to talk to or when they are in a crisis, not when they are having a party… I don’t spend a lot of time doing things that don’t have some kind of purpose. At the same time, I nearly always drop what I am doing to listen or help when someone needs it.
So, I say all that to preface what I’m about to say… Let’s not waste this precious life that God has given us! I am alarmed by the number of fantasy-related games there are out there. I hate to see how much time people are spending on things that have no meaning. We are being entertained to death! I’m sorry, but I have completely no understanding for spending hours playing games on Facebook (or other fantasy games or watching tv, etc…). I just found where I had been invited to Farmville, Zooville, Petville, Fishville, Cafeville, and heavens knows how many other ‘villes and causes. I just want to politely decline, and ask how in the world people have that kind of time on their hands to play stuff that has no meaning for now or especially for eternity. I know I’m stepping on a lot of toes right now, but maybe some people will thank me when they stop and think about all the good they could do with the time they are spending on these things. I doubt anyone on their death bed will be asking for their laptop or Crackberry so they can feed their cows on the “farm” or whatever they do.
Our world has gotten so fantasy-oriented. Just think how popular fantasy football and baseball are, along with all of those games on Facebook, video games, and internet games. Not to mention all of the television watching, such as the not-so-reality shows… well, I think you get the picture. We have traded in the real adventure for fantasy, and I don’t think that is what God intended for our lives. The heroes of the Bible stepped out in faith and took God-sized and directed risks. They were the real deal. They took that first step into the Jordan, and God took them into the Promised Land.
Maybe this is why I have such a desire to be a counselor and life coach. I hate to see people waste their gifts and talents on things that don’t matter. My wife has pointed out, and I do realize that I need to have more fun in my life. So, again, I want to say that my way of life is not perfect. On the other hand, when I stand before Jesus, I want to hear the words, “Well done good and faithful servant.” How about you?
Let’s encourage one another to step out in faith, and do something for the Kingdom. Let’s put God first and see what He will do with that. Let’s get away from the fantasy and live out the real adventures. Let’s walk in the footsteps of those who have gone before us… those who took the land and took the high ground, like Caleb (yes that comes from Men’s Fraternity 3).
So, if you have ever invited me to one of the ‘villes, please don’t be offended when I don’t accept – I have no desire or time. If you have ever sent me a gift on Facebook for one of these games, I answer the same. Also, I don’t see any point or benefit in joining causes on FB. If anyone can tell me some good that happens other than it shows up on my profile, I might reconsider. I have a lot of causes that I’m acually fighting for in real life – such as the one against fatherlessness.
I am only on Facebook to see how people are doing and try to keep up with what matters in their lives. I have, for the most part, given up, because I have to muddle through so much nonsense to get to the stuff that matters on FB. I don’t have time to spend hours on the computer, and I am still being stubborn and won’t get a cell phone… So, if you want me to know how you’re doing or if you have a prayer request, please send it directly or use the old fashioned way and call on the home phone.
I don’t know… maybe it’s the fact that we’re burying a dear friend tomorrow, so not wasting my life away is more on my mind. My friend lived life to the fullest, and even in his declining health was such an encourager. We often said that we were members of the mutual admiration society. He was 80 years old, and called me his adopted grandson. God gave me the beautiful gift of sitting with him just hours before He went to be with Jesus. He had really rallied and was sitting up in bed when I got there. Of all things, we watched Olympic curling together. I still can’t figure that sport out. However, I’m sure I’ll always think of him when I see that sport being played.
Not knowing this was our last time together, we parted with the words that we always parted with, which were “I love you.” Thank you, Lord, for Leo. I hope he is playing some heavenly golf right now. LOL
I hope this didn’t come across too harshly. But, we don’t know how much time we have left on this Earth. In fact, I hope Jesus comes back before I finish this post! We need to take every opportunity to do good, whether it be for our families, friends, or total strangers. We need to be glorifying God in all we do, and not hiding our talents. Yes, let’s have some fun, but let’s not entertain ourselves to death. I find work and serving others in the Bible a whole lot more than I find fun. Even their celebrations had a purpose – to bring praise and worship to God.
Okay. I was going to go to bed early tonight because tomorrow is going to be a long and tough day… Goodnight and God Bless!
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